Whatever your answer is, that’s the main cause of your behaviour.If your answer is something like “to find the one”, you’re gonna come across as needy.Why bend over backwards to make someone you barely know happy? A prime example of this is a guy who brings a girl flowers on the first date.
It’s like telling someone what’s in the present they’re about to unwrap. Focus on having fun, enjoy the mystery, and going from casual to serious will happen naturally.
Holding off to avoid judgement is ridiculous – how can two people have sex at the same time but only one of them does it too soon?
Any guy who loses interest in you for having casual sex “too soon” is not worth having around.
Sleepovers Without Sex As long as you aren’t fighting, this is actually a good sign.
You Leave Some Stuff at Their House If he’s leaving a pair of boxers at your place, it’s a sign.
Likewise, if she’s got some clothes or 8,412 bottles of hair product in your shower, you’re in.