Then it all changed when I caught some of my seniors in the hostel back then watching porn and discussing their sex life with girls in school. "This sex thing sounds interesting after all, let me give it try", my 14-year-old self-thought cunningly. READ ALSO: 7 reasons why men love breasts To prove my point, no girl ever forgets the name of the guy that disvirgined her. So why would a guy in this economic recession be entangled with a girl that can't stay away from him because she lost her virginity to him? This was a girl that was a virgin for 25 years andin two yearshad done the nasty with 5 other guys. I asked myself, so not only would I be the one she would forever remember as her first, I would now have the guilt of opening the door for other men to enter? She has done the nasty before and he also has experience. A guy that loves you would see beyond sex but in the same vein, will most girls that love a guy see beyond money? "This article was written by the partner blogger Kurtis.
To cut the long story short, it took me over 6 years after my first inquest into sex to loose my virginity. I think it was fate that made me keep that 'idiot' for so long. They both bring their external experiences together to make a mind blowing sexual adventure. He is the Chief Editor of with multitudinous articles on all things relationships, love, marriage, faith, career and you guessed it......
So that’s what I did yesterday night, I caught her on her own in the staffroom and figuring this was the best window of opportunity I plucked up the courage and said “Can I take you out some time”? Lenka then said when she knows her work rota we will both find a day off and go out then.
First thing I must do is not pressure her or bug her about her rota, she knows my rota because gaming staff rotas are located in the staffroom where as the waitresses in hospitality have theirs in the hospitality office which I don’t have access to.
Not saying I know everything about her but according to the “attractions post” I feel romantic, sensual and aesthetic attractions towards her. A girl says yes to me who I have met in person and more amazingly at work, no speed dating or online dating involved either.
So that’s more than enough to convince me to ask her out on a date. In that moment I felt happy and nervous at the same time.
She's like "awwwww, that's so sweet of you Kelvin".
Dating a virgin to many guys is a burden, someone you would have to encourage to kiss, someone you would have to beg to reach second base. Virgins come across as choosy, love conscious and will rebuff a guy's sexual advances. During the 'toasting' stage, he is all about love and isn't deterred when the girl tells him of her 'virgin' status. He tells her "I want you for who you are not for the sex". To girls, dating might be one of the most important things. While that probably isn’t true, if you’re a girl or you have a close female friend, you have probably heard her talk about dating or her lack there of.In any case, women date in order to find “the one.” Some give up easily, some don’t.READ ALSO: Understanding virginity and the 5 types of virgins After the shackles of virginity were lifted off my shoulders, I noticed that I myself detested virgins (female virgins). James on the other hand is seeing the shy, and reserved Kemi who is a virgin. After sometimes, it comes up again, she agrees to try it but is scared. Follow him on Twitter: @kurtissmithblog, FB: https:// and IG: @kingkurtissmithblog The views expressed in this article are the author’s own and do not necessarily represent the editorial policy of I never wanted to date any virgin and just avoided them by all means (dated a few back then but that was after love trapped me..lol). We (especially girls) need to understand that men are visual in nature not emotional. The earlier women accept this the easier time they will have understanding men. I liked her but being the man that disvirgined a girl I hardly felt anything for scared the hell out of me. welcomes writers, bloggers, photographers and all sorts of “noise makers” to become a part of our Bloggers network.I think the longest I have actually spoken to her is 5 minutes whilst on the floor when I had a no game on Roulette and she wasn’t serving anyone, but it got cut short when one of my managers came over to break it up as really we aren’t suppose to converse when we are suppose to be working even when there is no work to be done lol.